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Set a Gleaming Table with Silver

Whether it’s a special occasion or you’re setting a holiday table, few things make the meal as special as real silver. Sparkling silver is a joy to behold on the table and lets everyone know that the meal to come will be beyond the ordinary. One of the drawbacks to silver, though, is its care. Many people are becoming increasingly more informal in their dining because of the lack of time to devote to the care and cleaning of real silver. However, like special meals, taking the time to create an elegant table is more special – and more memorable and magical – when it’s set with silver.

Take the time this holiday season to dress up your table with silver. Having silver cleaned and ready in advance of your meal is the best way to make sure you don’t skip using it. Observe some care guidelines when getting silver ready to use for your special meal. Following these guidelines will keep your silver not only looking wonderful for the occasion, but will also preserve it as an heirloom for years and generations to come.

Silver care guidelines

Don’t wash silver in the dishwasher. This is rule No. 1. As tempting as it is to wash silver in a dishwasher, resist this. Dishwasher detergents are harmful to silver finishes, etch them, and can permanently damage your silver. Don’t risk it.

Use respected silver products. Some people do everything from cleaning silver in the dishwasher to dunking it in muriatic acid. It’s best to use products meant only for use on silver. Silver polish is meant for silver and uses special abrasives that are safe for silver.

Silver polishing cloths. Sometimes a quick buff is all your silver needs to come back to life. Specialized silver cleaning cloths won’t scratch and are specially designed to polish silver. Find them at your home, linen or department stores.

Wash your silver as soon as possible. Foods such as salt, eggs, and acids from vinegars are harsh to silver. To keep these from harming your silver, be sure to collect all the flatware after the meal and place it in a plastic tub or bowl of warm soapy (not hot) water. Hot water can loosen solders from old knives or other pieces. Empty out and rinse any silver containers or bowls, being sure to remove the salt from silver shakers immediately.

Let the food soften, but not for too long and then remove the silver and begin washing. Line the sink with a soft towel for washing. Afterwards, place the silver onto a soft dry towel and dry immediately to avoid spots. Avoid soaking any piece, such as candlesticks that aren’t solid or other pieces that are soldered or made up of more than one piece because water, as well as detergent or cleaners, can get into the silver and be difficult to get out and could cause damage.

Preserving your silver
One of the keys to preserving your silver and keeping it looking good for a long time is to store it properly. Storing silver in special silversmith’s cloth will keep the surface from being scratched or damaged. If you’re serious about preserving and protecting your silver, store it in the silversmith cloth bags and then place those into plastic zipper bags, removing the air before sealing. Silver’s biggest enemy is air. Removing the air around your silver will keep it shiny and clean and ready to use for your next occasion.

Make your table gleam this Thanksgiving and for many meals and holidays to come by adding that special sparkle that can only come from silver.

Create Harmony with Feng Shui

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A beautiful entrance like this one is considered very good feng shui. Open, bright, and attractive, this kind of entrance invites good feelings about the house and good energy to the home. Attractiveness and cleanliness is a hallmark of good feng shui.

Ask most anyone in the West, and they’ll tell you that they believe that we’re all products of our environment. Only, most Westerners believe that one’s family andsocial influencers have the greatest bearing on our development. For the Chinese, that belief is that we’re also products of our environment, but they mean what literally surrounds us. The Chinese believe our surroundings directly impact our productivity, effectiveness, and happiness, and that’s influenced by what you look at every day of your life, where you sleep, or the way your office is arranged.

Feng shui creates comfort
Part of being happy and healthy is being comfortable. This is good feng shui. Feng shui means that a home is clean, well-ordered, and attractive. It doesn’t
take a stretch of imagination or belief to know that we all feel better in a home where we can find things, a home that we find pleasing to look at, and a home that’s well maintained.

Too often feng shui is associated with Chinese superstition, such as the belief that a lucky frog will help you win the lottery. This isn’t feng shui. Feng shui is also associated with Zen decorating or Asian design. This also isn’t feng shui. Feng shui is about harmonizing your home so that everything is more comfortable and functional, from having sofas face one another for better conversations and so they are not “at odds” (45 degrees) from one another, to placing a desk or a bed so that you can see the door and not be surprised when someone enters the room.

Acupuncture for your home
One of the things feng shui does the best is to make sense of your home by diagnosing its ills. One common problem with homes is a negative entrance. Many people enter the home through the garage, kitchen, or laundry room. These rooms represent work and are often messy and unattractive. If greeting a mess or seeing ‘work’ the minute you enter the door, you might find that your mood turns down when you walk in the door. One of the quickest ways to turn this situation around is to enter the front door, where you most likely have created a pretty scene to greet your guests.

Another technique that’s good feng shui is removing sad objects. One client I worked with looked at a blue painting of a woman crying every day she left her bedroom. It was at eye level as she went downstairs to the living area of her home. She suffered from depression and low vitality. I suggested she move the picture and put something happy and vibrant, such as flowers, in the same spot. After two weeks, she felt much happier and had actually lost a little weight. Who wouldn’t feel down if you saw a sad, crying woman every day of your life as you went out to greet the world?

Planning is good feng shui
So you see, feng shui, isn’t just “incense and woo-woo,” it can also be about common sense, by looking at your home in a new way. This is just one part of my design work, but one I wanted to share with you while I was away in Singapore. By the way, Singapore, a city-state, is one of the most heavily feng shui-designed cities in the world. What does that mean? Plenty of balance between urban and green areas, lots of flowing, beautiful fountains, and thoughtful, careful city planning so that all the residents are more comfortable and productive.

You can do the same with your home with good design, which is what I try to bring you in every column I write. In the meantime, look at your house again with an eye toward making your home more attractive, more functional, and more supportive for you and your family.

Check out the Red Lotus Letter feng shui e-zine , the only newsletter with easy tips and practical information on incorporating feng shui into your home.

The Return of Wallpaper

Is there one decorating element that can instantly set a tone and create a unifying design for a room?  Yes; wallpaper can.  Wallpaper has fallen out of favor in the past ten years or so because it was overused and too infrequently changed.  It also became tiresome as wallpaper borders became ubiquitous and made our eyes run a tedious marathon around the four corners of every room where it was used.

But, we’re seeing a resurgence of patterns and the natural transition is to put them on the walls.  Today’s wallpaper isn’t like your grandmother’s.  The style now is vibrant, boldly graphic or understated and both can be used to create a fresh and cleverly updated appearance.

Go graphic
Bold, graphic designs like Lisa Bengtsson’s black and white shoe wallpaper are so chic and trendy.  But using those wild prints requires a light touch. A great example of the use of bold design is on the hit television show, Extreme Makeover Home Edition. In many homes, they use very bold and graphic wallpaper, particularly in the master bedroom.

If you want to try some high style wallpaper, create a bold statement wall and use a wild or large print as a focal point, such as behind a bed.  If the print is bold and the design is not too big, add paper below chair rail moulding.  A graphic black and white wallpaper was used below a black chair rail on Episode 514 on Extreme Makeover and makes the furnishings pop against the monochromatic backdrop.

Be different
Another clever use of wallpaper is using texture on the walls.  You no longer have to hope to find wallpaper in the color you want.  Instead, you apply the wallpaper in the texture you like and paint it with the exact shade you desire.  This means an infinite variety of styles can be used from a single style of textured wallpaper.

Try using textured wallpaper in a closet or on a ceiling for even more visual interest and unexpected punch.  A huge surprise in wallpaper is the re-emergence of flocked wallpaper.  Some of the trendiest hotels are employing this Seventies standard for more high-style with retro appeal.

Of course, all wallpaper today doesn’t have to be big, bold, and wildly-patterned.  Many of the new wallpapers are very subtle designs. Ronaldreddingdesigns.com has a wonderful selection of classically elegant yet updated wallpapers.  Rich and beautiful, these understated papers create a relaxing and calm environment that is tasteful, yet fresh.

Apply carefully
Even though you can add great style and a decorating facelift in a hurry, resist the temptation to paste up a roll of paper without doing some prep work first. The great thing about wallpaper is that you can take it down. The bad thing about wallpaper is that you have to take it down.  Before using any wallpaper, take the little step and roll on a coat of wallpaper sealer before pasting up your paper.

This product will ensure that when it’s time for the paper to come down, you will be able to get it off of the walls.  Check with your paint store to get the correct product.  Once your paper is on the wall, try using any leftovers in a creative way.

For instance, if you only paper one wall, try framing some wallpaper to hang on a non-papered wall.  It will create a great designer look and save you some money on artwork.

Take a look at wallpaper again.  It’s not the same old roses and paisley prints anymore – and the new patterns might just be the perfect remedy for the plain painted wall.

 

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